selfcareafterrape: selfcareafterrape: I survived an abusive relationship. At this point I have talked to and worked with hundreds of people in abusive relationships. Guess what? telling us to leave never works. ever. I could write a post about ways
tags: abuse, this is def stuff we've gone over in my training, DON'T instigate, understand that you will only be able to do whatever the survivor is comfortable with having you do, and try to make sure you aren't making things worse, queue
original: https://transaizawa.tumblr.com/post/146540370862