thesixthstar:rottingtrouble-child:I fucking hate the “explaining = invalidating” when it comes to apologies. Yes, sometimes a person means to invalidate you by saying this, but sometimes we genuinely just want to fucking explain our side so we can
tags: yea, context is super important, to me I very much want to know the why of things, it really does matter whether someone was hurtful willfully or by accident, artie queueniverse
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